There are things we want in life that sometimes seem difficult or impossible to have.
Thinking about how to get them usually leads us into a downward spiral. So Abraham-Hicks advises that we instead focus on why we want these things.
The answer is always ultimately because of how we will feel when we have the things we desire.
Having a great relationship or an amazing job would make it easier to feel good – at least at first.
But since happiness is a vibrational game, it’s not the thing that makes us happy, it’s the vibration we are focused on.
The person you want to be with doesn’t make you feel good; it’s your vibration on the subject of that person. When you think about that person/subject you activate a vibration closer to the vibration of your inner being, and so you feel good.
But you can also think about that same person or situation and activate a vibration further away from the vibration of your inner being, and that will feel bad.
And since life is about creating and expanding through our desires these good and bad feeling vibrations correspond to thoughts that allow or resist our desires.
So what to do?
It might sound a bit strange, but since happiness is a vibrational game why not find the really good feeling vibration you associate with having that relationship or getting that job, and just feel the vibration now?
That’s what Abraham-Hicks are teaching. How do you feel when you imagine being with that person? Excitement, adventure, connection, energy. How do you feel when you imagine having that job? Purposeful, creative, proud, accomplished, energised.
When you imagine it to the point of feeling it, you activate the vibration. Just practice that vibration now. It couldn’t be more simple.
It’s not the person or the job or any other condition making you feel so good. It’s the vibration. And you can have the vibration right now and in every moment and eternally.
The question is: do you want to feel that good right now? Don’t feel bad about it, but you’re probably not ready to feel that good. That’s why Abraham-Hicks advises to start with just aiming to feel better.
But when you are ready to find the vibration of the things you desire, then you can enjoy the essence of your desire in this very moment.